About want

A new way to meet someone worth knowing

We designed want around one belief: connection should start with substance, not surface. Here's how it all comes together.

Our Story

I started want because I was tired. Tired of apps that reduced people to a photo and a punchline. Tired of swiping through faces and feeling nothing. I think most people know that feeling, the sense that something fundamental is broken about how we meet each other now.

Swipe-based platforms are designed to keep you scrolling, not to help you connect. They optimise for engagement, not for the kind of moment where someone actually sees you. I wanted to build the opposite.

I wanted to build something that mirrors how the best relationships actually begin: through shared values, mutual curiosity, and a genuine desire to know someone.
Chris, Founder

Founded in London, want was built around one belief: the most meaningful connections happen when you lead with substance. Our process is deliberately slow, deliberately considered. Every feature exists to protect the experience, from identity verification to voice notes to the mutual interest model that ensures both people are equally invested at every step.

We're a small team building something we wish existed. Not a platform that monetises loneliness, but a community that values depth, safety, and the kind of connection that's worth the wait.

How it works

Four intentional steps. No swiping. No algorithms optimised for addiction. Just a considered path from stranger to someone worth knowing.
01

We learn what matters to you

A conversational onboarding explores your values, intentions, and what you're truly looking for. Not a checklist. A conversation that helps us understand you.

02

An introduction with context

We don't show you a grid of faces. We introduce you to one person and explain why we believe there's ground for connection. Mutual interest is required to proceed.

03

Before you see them, you hear them

If you both choose to continue, you each share a voice note. Tone, warmth, humour. The things a photo can never convey. Another layer of mutual interest.

04

The reveal is earned

Full profiles unlock only through mutual interest. You decide based on substance first, surface second. Then it's time to talk. For real.

Your safety, designed in

Safety isn't a feature we bolted on. It's the foundation everything else is built upon.

Identity verified

Every member completes KYC verification when they join. Government-issued ID, selfie match. Real people, confirmed.

Private by default

Your profile isn't visible to anyone until there's a mutual introduction. No browsing, no lurking, no unwanted attention.

Mutual at every step

Nothing progresses without both people choosing to continue. Voice notes, reveals, chat. Every stage requires dual consent.

Zero tolerance

Harassment, catfishing, and bad-faith behaviour lead to immediate removal. Our team reviews every report personally.

Human support

Real people, not chatbots. If something doesn't feel right, our team is here to listen, respond, and act.

Curated community

We maintain a high standard for the community. Applications are reviewed, and membership can be revoked for values misalignment.

Membership

want is intentionally paced. Introductions are not unlimited. They are designed to prioritise clarity, balance, and mutual choice.
Standard Membership

Free

For those beginning their journey
  • Participate in Core and Wild-card introduction cycles
  • Structured, step-by-step introductions
  • Timed mutual progression at every stage
  • Identity verification before participating
  • Access to open events (ticketed)
Introductions are allocated based on engagement and pool balance.
Get started

Early Member Rate — Since launching in September, want has continued to refine and strengthen intentional introductions. As we prepare for our mobile launch, we are deepening integration, intelligent curation, and prioritisation across the platform. Members who join now will retain the current Early Member rate as want continues to grow.

Events

Connection shouldn't just happen on a screen. Our curated events bring the want community together in person. Low-pressure, high-intention settings across London.

Partner with us

We work with venues, brands, and creatives who share our values. If you're interested in hosting or co-creating experiences for the want community, we'd love to hear from you.

Venue partners

Host a want event at your space. We bring a curated, engaged community looking for meaningful connection in thoughtful settings.

Experience collaborators

Wellness instructors, chefs, artists, facilitators. If you run something that brings people together with intention, let's talk.

Brand alignment

We're open to working with brands that align with our ethos. Thoughtful, premium, community-minded. No mass-market sponsorships.

Frequently asked

Most apps show you hundreds of profiles and let you swipe through them. want is the opposite. We introduce you to one person at a time, explain why we think you'd connect, and let the relationship build through shared values and voice before photos. Every step requires mutual interest from both sides.
After completing your onboarding, we curate introductions based on what you've told us matters. You'll see context about why we think there's potential. But not a photo. If you're both interested, you exchange voice notes. If mutual interest continues, full profiles are revealed and you can begin chatting.
Every member goes through a KYC (Know Your Customer) check when they sign up. This involves verifying a government-issued ID and a live selfie to confirm you are who you say you are. This keeps the community safe and ensures every interaction is with a real, verified person.
We're starting in London because we believe strong communities grow best when they begin locally. As the community develops, we plan to expand to other cities. Join the waitlist to be the first to know when want arrives near you.
That's completely fine, and expected. If either person doesn't feel it, the process simply pauses. Your feedback helps us refine future introductions. There's no pressure, no awkwardness. The system is designed for graceful exits at every stage.
Yes, you can cancel at any time from your account settings. Your membership will remain active until the end of your current billing period. If you cancel within 14 days of purchase and premium access has not yet been activated, you may request a refund in line with UK consumer regulations. For full details, see our Billing & Cancellations page.

Contact

Whether you have a question about membership, events, or just want to say hello, we'd love to hear from you.

team@want.london
London, United Kingdom
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