want is built on a simple belief: real connection starts with respect. These aren't rules for the sake of rules. They're the shared commitments that make this community different. By joining want, you agree to uphold them. So does everyone else here.
Your profile should reflect who you actually are. Real photos, real information, real intentions. Authenticity is the foundation of everything here. Don't fabricate details about yourself, your life, or what you're looking for. Real connections come from truth, not performance.
Every interaction on want requires mutual willingness. Don't pressure anyone into sharing information, meeting up, or continuing a conversation they want to end. Clear boundaries deserve respect, not negotiation. No means no. Always, without exception.
We know it's easier to disappear than to have an honest conversation. But on want, we ask you to close loops respectfully. If you're not feeling a connection, a brief, kind message goes a long way. You'd want the same courtesy extended to you.
Harassment, hate speech, discrimination, and abuse have no place here. Zero tolerance. This includes unsolicited sexual content, threats, slurs, and any behaviour designed to intimidate or demean. Critique ideas, not people. Disagree with care.
want welcomes everyone regardless of background, ethnicity, religion, gender identity, sexual orientation, or ability. Diversity of identity and perspective is celebrated here. Discriminatory language or behaviour will result in immediate removal.
Every member completes identity verification before accessing the community. This keeps everyone accountable. Don't attempt to circumvent verification, create multiple accounts, or misrepresent your identity. If you encounter someone who doesn't seem genuine, report them. It helps us all.
want is not a marketplace. Using the platform for solicitation, promotion, financial requests, or any commercial purpose will result in a permanent ban. This space is for genuine human connection. Nothing else.
What happens on want stays on want. Don't screenshot, share, or distribute other members' profiles, photos, voice notes, or conversations without their explicit consent. Respect the vulnerability that comes with putting yourself out there.
Our events are extensions of this community. The same standards apply in person. Be present, be respectful, and look out for one another. Excessive intoxication, disruptive behaviour, or making others feel unsafe will result in removal from the event and may lead to account suspension.
If someone violates these rules, report them to our team. Don't engage, escalate, or take matters into your own hands. We review every report and take appropriate action, from warnings to permanent bans depending on severity.
Violations of these rules may result in warnings, temporary suspension, or permanent removal from want. Serious breaches, including harassment, fraud, or illegal activity, will be reported to the relevant authorities. We don't take this lightly, and neither should you.